How practicing Reiki has transformed my relationship to chronic pain
By Sophia Isako Yinchee Wong
As soon as I wake up, I check on my pain.
Usually, I start my day without too much trouble; my steps are somewhat labored, but I can walk to work. Sometimes the pain goes on holiday for a few weeks, allowing me to enjoy a brisk run. Once I even managed to run a 5K race in Central Park at a moderate pace.
Sometimes, however, pain screams so piercingly that I cannot hear much else, and my life shrinks to the circumference of my bedroom. I fumble for the phone, call in sick to work, and wait for the waves of pain to abate.
I wish I could tell you that Reiki treatment chased pain away forever. That was my fervent hope after I received my first Reiki treatment, falling asleep blissfully on the table and awaking with a deep sense of relaxation. However, pain soon returned with its usual unpredictability.
Disappointed, I thought, “Okay, perhaps Reiki is like all the other treatments I’ve tried: orthotics, cortisone shots, physical therapy, deep tissue massages, hot baths, yoga asanas, acupuncture, essential oils, resting, and reading books about pain. Each of these treatments makes the pain subside for a while, but then it returns. They provide temporary relief, but nothing deeper than that.”
After three months of daily Reiki self-treatment, however, my approach to managing pain has changed subtly. I’ve become more sensitive to conditions that can trigger pain episodes. Observing my body’s response to Reiki treatment has taught me that I need to slow down, to rest more, and to keep my plans flexible from hour to hour.
Because I start each day quietly experiencing Reiki’s ability to calm my nerves, I can now detect when I am getting tired or stressed, just soon enough that I can choose not to put in that extra hour at the office. Sometimes I ask a friend to meet me at my home for dinner, so I don’t have to travel forty minutes to meet her at our favorite restaurant.
Learning to offer myself Reiki has also encouraged me to speak up for myself and to tell others that I need to sit silently (sometimes at their homes or in public places) to give myself a short Reiki treatment whenever I feel the need for healing.
Practicing Reiki has reduced but not eliminated my chronic pain. It has also brought me an unexpected benefit: a new pathway for managing the pain whenever it arises. I am very grateful for this inner shift that enables me to live more peacefully with chronic pain.
I have just read your article on your chronic pain, and it made me cry for you, you
See, I also have suffered chronic pain, as a result of 2 clubbed feet which was made
Much worse by many wrong treatments, so all my life I have been in and out of
Hospital, about 4 years ago I went into hospital for 3weeks, for Pain Rehab to learn
How to cope and manage my pain, It is not a cure, but my whole perception towards
My life and pain has changed,so I understand what you go through, as I am disabled.
I am a Yoga Teacher and Therapist for the Disabled, I have found that yoga and
Meditation, together with my pain management is so helpful, I’m so happy that Reiki
Has helped you, I know that it is a wonderful way of life, I pray you have No Pain,
PEACE AND MANY BLESSINGS* Susan**Cohen**
Wow, great story. Made me think. Is there a parallel with emotional pain?
I want Reiki to take my emotional pain away. I want it to make my heart peaceful and clear. It can be disappointing when this doesn’t happen. But is there a gem lying in the rough? Reiki can help us see where the pain comes from, when it comes, why it comes. We can then choose to manage our emotions differently, to choose differently, to live differently.
Isn’t this ultimately more empowering? Isn’t this something like moving beyond praying to God with a shopping list, and listening to God as a co-author of our lives? We were not meant to be children all our lives.
I believe Reiki can help pain even if the client has had it for years. My client with quadriplegia of 10 years had a 50% reduction of burning neuropathy pain in her hands after a month of Reiki sessions. The treatments made life much more livable and she reduced the amt of her narcotic pain medications. Later she saw an osteopath for cranial work and body manipulation, which also helped and within the year went of all pain medications! A miracle story for her.
I am so excited to read this story. I have had chronic pain for almost a year and gone through all the treatments you mentioned. I have started to find some relief
with guided meditation, which helps me handle the pain in a different way. It’s not gone, but it’s manageable. I have also started doing some reike self-treatment and look forward to making it a regular part of my morning routine also.